I was told by more than one grandparent that I need to stop picking up the baby every time he cries. As a new mom, that is very hard to do! But it was time for me to toughen up a bit so today when he started crying I put him in the swing with his pacifier. I have attempted to do this before but always gave in the first time he would start to cry. I told myself that I was not going to do that today and I didn't! He did cry today but I just kept on talking to him while putting the pacifier back in his mouth. Eventually, he gave in!!! Yeah mom!!!
I guess I will leave the spoiling to the grandparents!!!